Zil better.

So, it seems things are a bit better between us and Zil.
Thanks to Wes, partly.
*shimmy* for Wes!
Because I do think that our not drinking was translating to judging-her-for-drinking.
Or something like that.
And somehow, that all made it easier to forgive because we understood it so we had a nice time today when she came for tea and didn't demand to know why she'd been so horrible to us.
So, thank you!